Honey Do List

Honey Do List

The very existence of the possibility of a “honey do” list astounded me. You mean, you can make a list of things that need to be done around the house and really expect the hubby to start doing them? Wow!!! Well, it didn’t really work out that way. Both hubby and myself are… well, we’re basically intellectuals, which means that our skill set is often less than practical. And – of course – we’re both working full-time and not getting any younger. We’re tired!

Still, the tasks need to be done. Lately, I’ve been tackling some of the list myself. It’s not as difficult as I thought, but getting materials is sometimes expensive, so I need to parcel it out.

Here’s what I’ve accomplished so far:

  1. Weed-whack the back yard
  2. Get more fish for the pond
  3. Replace the light bulbs on the back yard landscape lights and move them near the pond
  4. Cut back the overgrown shrubs, especially the azaleas at the front steps
  5. Get the leaves out from the sunken entrance to the basement
  6. Cut back the fig tree where it’s taking over the deck
  7. Start levelling off the back yard where sinkholes are making it wavy (with shovel!) – about halfway done
  8. Blow the yard leaves into reasonable areas
  9. Put up a new hammock where the other one had rotted out
  10. Start cleaning out the junk in the garage – about halfway done
  11. Replace the old lampshades in the living room
  12. Treat the old wood fireplace mantel with lemon oil
  13. Treat the perimeter of the house with insect killer
  14. Clean out the mysterious objects buried under the back deck

Here’s what remains to be done:

  1. Research, bid and pay for better house insulation
  2. Storage for comforters – hope chest or cabinet
  3. Get a bedroom suite – or at least a headboard
  4. Get 25′ of hose, dig a trench, and hook up the pond pump to the waterfall
  5. Buy butcherblock or granite island for kitchen
  6. Repair or replace hot tub
  7. Replace rugs throughout
  8. Get a conversation couch with recliners for tv room
  9. Replace/install garbage disposal
  10. Replace the kitchen floor
  11. Replace the broken parts of kitchen cabinets
  12. Attempt to stain the good kitchen cabinets
  13. Tile area around bathroom sinks
  14. Replace back deck lights
  15. Get electrical work done, and replace ceiling lights in living room
  16. Finish basement stairs
  17. Replace outside basement door area wood slats with metal
  18. Ventilation fan in basement
  19. Update/replace important windows
  20. Weatherstrip the leaking windows
  21. Pressure-wash the back deck and the front stair area
  22. Sand and stain the front stairs
  23. Stain the deck
  24. Decide color, and paint the wall around the fireplace
  25. Paint the kitchen
  26. Set up basement playroom
  27. Reorganize the kid’s bedroom
  28. Reorganize laundry room
  29. Reorganize my office
  30. Move basement microwave upstairs
  31. Move rarely-used kitchen items into the basement
  32. Finish cleaning/reorg of garage
  33. Finish levelling the back yard
  34. Get 12 bags of pebbles for back area
  35. Throw down soil/manure for the spring
  36. Plant some bulbs now for the spring
  37. Collect clothes for donation
  38. Collect books for resale or donation
  39. Replace furnace filter

What a lot of work… time… money….!

You tell me God is dancing in the rain

You tell me God is dancing in the rain

The greyness is comforting, bittersweet, familiar.

Is the awareness of the longing itself the meaning? Is there an object for the longing? Is the longing the subject? What is beyond the longing? Where is the between of the longing?

“A Lonely Voice” – October Project

I keep looking back
A lifetime back
Across the desert
In a desert where no one can explain
You tell me God is dancing in the rain

I can hear the echo
In a maze of words
A lonely voice behind a door
Can you hear me calling
From a world away
A lonely voice behind a door

I keep looking back
Traditions back
Across the centuries
In a century where no one can explain
You tell me God is dancing in the rain

I can hear the echo
In a maze of words
A lonely voice behind a door
Can you hear me calling
From a world away
A lonely voice behind a door

As I stare ahead
A dream ahead
Across the ocean
Cross an ocean where there’s nothing to explain
You tell me God is laughing in the rain

I can hear the echo
In a maze of words
A lonely voice behind a door
Can you hear me calling
From a world away
A lonely voice behind a door

Quotations Train

Quotations Train

“Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are but princesses that are waiting to see us act just once with beauty and courage.
Perhaps everything terrible is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that needs our help.”
~ Rainer Maria Rilke

“Man can preserve a vestige of spiritual freedom, of independence of mind, even in such terrible conditions of psychic and physical stress.”
~ Viktor Frankl

“Spirit borrows from matter the perceptions on which it feeds and restores them to matter in the form of movements which it has stamped with its own freedom.”
~ Henri L. Bergson

“Spiritual energy flows in and produces effects in the phenomenal world.”
~ William James

“In each individual the spirit is made flesh, in each one the whole of creation suffers, in each one a Savior is crucified.”
~ Hermann Hesse

“There is no intensity of love or feeling that does not involve the risk of crippling hurt. It is a duty to take this risk, to love and feel without defense or reserve.”
~ William S. Burroughs

“It is very hard sometimes to know how intensely we are loved, and of what value our presence is to those who love us.”
~ Anthony Trollope

“The psychic task which a person can and must set for himself is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurity.”
~ Erich Fromm

“Learn to watch your drama unfold while at the same time knowing you are more than your drama.”
~ Ram Dass

“In the dominant Western religious system, the love of God is essentially the same as the belief in God, in God’s existence, God’s justice, God’s love. The love of God is essentially a thought experience. In the Eastern religions and in mysticism, the love of God is an intense feeling experience of oneness, inseparably linked with the expression of this love in every act of living.”
~ Erich Fromm

“The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity.
The creative mind plays with the objects it loves.”
~ Carl Jung

“Precisely the least, the softest, lightest, a lizard’s rustling, a breath, a flash, a moment – a little makes the way of the best happiness.”
~ Frederich Nietzsche

“Life is not meant to be easy, my child; but take courage: it can be delightful.”
~ George Bernard Shaw

Bring Them Home

Bring Them Home

Seeing this much love can only bring higher awareness… and tears.

What are we fighting for? Why do greed and corruption and needless death still triumph over love and caring and thriving?

Have we learned nothing at all?

Bring them home. Bring them home. Bring them all home – everywhere.

Such a Girly Throw

Such a Girly Throw

My cousin Kim sent me the very short video of my football “girly throw” during the contest in Colorado. I would have gotten more distance if I’d just given up and thrown it underhand.

Next year, watch out! Jillian, I’m coming after you!

Mama Tortoise

Mama Tortoise

Every summer, at least one mama tortoise finds her way to our yard to lay her eggs. Every time I’ve seen this, it’s been raining. Maybe it makes the clay easier to dig. This year, I spotted her during the digging phase. She picked a tough place to do it, all among some old landscaping pebbles buried down against flooding.

After grabbing a few photographs, I left her alone to do what she was there to do. She’ll be gone by morning. So far, I’ve never seen the little ones hatch – maybe they do that in the rain, too.